Masturbation is usually something one does on their own. It’s self-pleasure, a way to wind down, and relax after a long day. Other times you’re doing it because you’re horny and really need a release. But does masturbation have to change or go away entirely when you’re in a relationship? In some cases, you end up with this “either or” dynamic. Either it’s gone entirely or, if she/he is doing it, it’s because they’ve been left unsatisfied by their partner during sex.
It seems like a really negative mindset to be in. But it’s not uncommon that someone left unsatisfied will fulfill those urges with masturbation. In an open environment, one where two people are sharing their sexual urges, they begin mutual masturbation or watching the other masturbate. Mutual masturbation has been a suggested practice for couples trying to understand the other – or a way to bridge a gap. Masturbating is intimate, a solo act. It’s not something you openly show other people since you’re pleasing yourself.
Mutual masturbation enables both sides to watch and understand how the other person likes to get off. You then apply this during sex to bring about some fantastic orgasms. What we’re talking about today, with the help of an old Fanza post, is what to do when your partner asks if they can watch you masturbate.
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Openly Masturbating, Exercise
In the same ways that mutual masturbation can be a benefit to a relationship and not a hindrance, watching her or him do it is good too. Fanza wrote an article and did a poll on “watching your partner” masturbating a while back. It’s good to bring it up again now because there are some interesting points brought up by those who have done it.
One of the things brought up by Fanza is this:
I can understand the sentiment that “if we mutually show each other, we both feel less embarrassed.”
They also go on to bring up the fact that maybe some women just want to watch a man masturbate. Which, yeah, that can be entirely true for either side. Porn is full of people masturbating and loads of fans enjoy watching their favorite pornstar masturbate. They then went on to ask some people, who have watched their partner masturbate, why they’ve done it.
- “Curiosity, I want to know everything about the person.”
- “I want to know and see everything about the person I like, so if he asks me to look at him, I will gladly do so. (20s, customer service industry)
- “I love the way he works hard and the expressions that I don’t usually see.”
Watching someone you love or like masturbate is an incredible turn-on. It feeds into your already established imagination. But, at the same time, it’s a different experience. You’re watching them touch themself. That’s erotic on its own when he strokes his penis or she grabs her breasts or plays with her finger in her mouth. It’s the allure of it.
“An arousal tool or a way to bring about better sex.“
Watching someone masturbate is like watching porn. You’re there again, as that voyeur, watching this cute girl touch herself. You’re turned on, excited, and ready for when it’s your turn to get in there. That’s exactly the point. Others who responded to that old Fanza poll said the same thing.
- “‘I want to see it and it excites me’ (30s, housewife)
- “If it’s someone I like, I’d like to see them masturbate and it would be a source of excitement.
- “If it’s someone I like, I’d like to see him masturbate.
Masturbation is a source of intimacy and a tool to bring two people even more together. Having her touch herself without any form of penetration or to have her rub her clitoris during a sex position is near the same. They’re both ways of gaining pleasure while one amplifies something her partner is doing to her.
Another fantastic thing about masturbating more while in a relationship, or watching someone, is the increased hunger for having sex. Masturbating keeps you in a healthy sexual state where you can be sexually active and want to be sexually active. Watching your partner masturbate or receiving pictures of them masturbating will make you want to have sex with them at a moment’s notice. It’s healthy to learn that you are learning about their body, learning what makes them twitch, throb, and convulse.
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